sow one's wild oats
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Definition
Verb phrase: - To engage in a period of wild, promiscuous, or irresponsible behavior, typically associated with youth before settling down.
Usage
This phrase describes a temporary phase, usually expected of young men, involving hedonistic activities like excessive partying, casual sexual relationships, and a lack of responsibility before adopting a more stable, conventional lifestyle. - It is used in the past tense to describe a phase that is now over. - It often carries a tone of mild disapproval or amused tolerance, acknowledging the behavior as a foolish but perhaps expected part of growing up.
Examples
Advanced Usage
- The phrase is traditionally and most commonly applied to young men. Its application to women is less traditional and can carry different social connotations.
- It implies a natural, almost inevitable progression from wild youth to settled adulthood.
Variants and Related Words
- Sow (verb): To plant seeds. This is the literal root of the idiom, metaphorically meaning to scatter the "seeds" of wild behavior.
- Wild oats (noun phrase): A metaphor for reckless or promiscuous acts. The phrase comes from the idea of sowing weed seeds (wild oats) instead of useful crops.
Synonyms
- Sow one's oats (a shortened, slightly less common variant).
- Live it up: To live in a lively, extravagant way.
- Sow one's royal oats: A humorous variant implying extravagant or princely behavior.
Related Idioms
- Settle down: To adopt a quieter, more stable lifestyle, which is the expected result after sowing one's wild oats.
- Have one's fling: To have a short period of enjoyment or irresponsible behavior.
- Sow discord: A different idiom using "sow," meaning to cause trouble or disagreement.
Verb
- live promiscuously and self-indulgently